We got our official May numbers. We are 27 for a girl and 18 for a boy. It is hard to believe that when we got on the wait list the end of July the difference b/t our girl and boy numbers was 33. Now look at the difference. Crazy! Although the current wait time for a referral is 9-12 months, they are preparing us to wait up to 18 months for a referral due to all of the changes. The only way they predict how long the wait will be is based on how things are currently going. Since things have changed with the courts and they are processing the cases more in depth, we don't really know how it will all play out. It is a wait and see game at this point since the ones that got referrals after the new "rule" about the courts are still in the process.
Once upon a time, we thought there was a small chance that we would have a referral by the end of the school year. Well, that has come and gone. Then we thought that maybe by the end of July we might have a referral since that would be a year on the wait list. Now I'm hopefully thinking it might be by the end of this year. I certainly hope it is sooner than that, but I've found it is easier to plan for it to be longer. It would be a nice surprise if it ended up being shorter. It is also less disappointment to err on the side of too long. Time will tell. One of my favorite songs plays over and over in my head through all of this. The song is "Everlasting God." The first line that repeats is "Strength will rise as we wait upon the Lord." So very true!
Currently there are about 17 families from our agency that will be traveling in the next week or two for court appointments. That is great to see. It shows that the courts are still processing cases. Now if we could get a huge flow of referrals. I've learned after 7 weeks without an infant referral that I'll take one every so often instead of none for a long time. Slow progress is better than no progress. It certainly is time for there to be a huge amount of referrals going out.
Now that school is out, we will be able to concentrate on getting our new bedroom finished, Lexi moved to our old bedroom, and the baby's room done. :) I can't wait to share that on here with all of you!!!
Thanks for the thoughts, prayers, and concern!!! We are so thankful to have so many people on this journey with us.